Before you plan that exquisite gourmet meal, it’s a good idea to think about where you are in your relationship. If you’ve been with a girl for a while, cooking a fancy meal that takes a lot of time to prepare can seem really romantic. If you just met the girl last week, however, that same meal can seem kind of creepy. Early in a relationship, it may be best to stick with simple dishes–still mindful, of course, of what your girlfriend likes to eat — or you might give the impression that you’re too eager to please her. Besides, if you cook a six-course dinner on the second date, imagine how many courses you’re going to have to make if you’re still together in a year or two.